I’ve noticed a trend among couples. When one partner royally screws up – let’s say they cheat, or their porn stash is discovered, or they’ve secretly spent thousands of dollars using a joint credit card – there seem to be two main ways that partner deals with their betrayal.

A lot of people are talking about therapy these days. Maybe you’ve heard a friend, or a co-worker, or even a stand-up comedian mention they’re in therapy. You might be thinking, geez, maybe I should give it a try…